I believe that the only constant in life is change. Here is an excerpt from my book “The LOveCATOR Method”:
“We are evolving human beings. We are always changing. Our skin regenerates itself every 27 days and our entire body completely regenerates on a cellular level every 7 years. Thus, we are regenerating every second of our lives regardless of whether we are aware of it or not. Our mind is evolving too. So our preferences and priorities change from time to time. We all change and that is totally fine—we change throughout our lives, through our experiences.
If you think about it, you probably like some food that you did not like before. .Some people even develop allergies to certain types of food (or materials) through the years. Change is a natural and consistent part of life. That is the reason why this first exercise to find your exact LOveCATION is the first key to getting you to where you want to go, and right away. .If you are in a loving relationship, keep evaluating how you feel in that relationship on a regular basis.
Observe how much you have changed over the years or months of being in that relationship. It is often easier to look at the other person and notice how much he or she has changed. We usually complain and say something like, “Oh, they used to be much nicer than they are now.” But the real challenge is to discover how much you have changed up to today. Maybe the things the other person used to do no longer make you feel the way they used to, and that is totally fine. You simply need to acknowledge it and own it. Being honest about your feelings is revealing and always embraces growth.”
Today I encourage you to start a conversation with your Significant Other looking at how the two of you have changed over the years. The happiest, most fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships are those in which both partners understand the importance of keeping up with how they are evolving.