Being loved and appreciated in a way that you understand is important in any relationship. That’s why it is so important to identify what’s your preferred way to communicate your love.
Having different love languages with your partner isn’t necessarily a deal-breaker, but not knowing how each of you feel most loved, can make navigating inevitable relationship challenges extremely tough. Unfortunately, we cannot read each other’s minds (well, we don’t have the technology just yet!) so it will be a good idea to find out.
If you need to hear with words that your partner love you, appreciate you, and will be there for you no matter what, then your love language is the “𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀”.
If that’s your partner, you will need to find creative ways to share how you feel so you both will be speaking the same love language; at the end of the day, communication is crucial in a satisfying relationship.
Words are everything for people with words of affirmations as their primary love language but you need to be genuine as they are experts in knowing if you really mean what you are saying so“ 𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗸𝗲𝘆”.
People whose primary love language is Words of Affirmations never get tired of hearing “I love you,” from the people they care about and they also enjoy knowing that people are actually appreciating and recognising what they do.
A little “Thank You” or “I Love You” note, will make their day BIG TIME! Self-Reflection: Do you or your partner speak the ‘Words of Affirmations’ love language?